Hi Matt,
As usual it's pretty difficult to fix a probllem from abroad without sufficient knowledge about the installation and wiring. But I'll try my best:
First: The quarz for transmitter and receiver both have (must have) the same channel number (Ch 51 in your case). Mostly the same frequency is printed on small labels (40.625 Mhz).
But (!!!): these quarzes are ni fact different. So it is important to use the TX quarz for the transmitter and the RX quarz for the receiver. Swapping them will disable the radio communication.
Second: Please invest 5 bugs into a servo tester such as:
https://cgi.ebay.de/multi-Servo-tester-3…=item4aa9619619
This small test device will allow you within seconds to confirm correct function of your servos or motor controls. When you are able to exclude servos and motor controls from your overall system problem then it can be limitted to questionable transmitter/receiver devices.
I'm afraid that's all I can do for the moment. Probably some detail pictures from your installation, especially with regard to wiring, would help investigation.
All the best and good luck!
Cheers,
Johannes